"when i deal with people like that it all goes pearshaped"
Oh well, I tried. Goodness me, couldn't you just report your finds, you can even do it online, you don't even have to speak to them.
It's probably something i'll do when i'm older, i'm only 38, so i've got lots to do yet, when my legs are gone and i'm stuck indoors hopefully in another 38 years i'll do it then, rest easy it WILL happen one day.