"Violence and arrogance comment is somewhat confusing. An asshole is an asshole whether a warrior or not, and I don't stereotype warriors because they are capable of violence on the battlefield"
You're right of course Branwen, I understand the point you are making ... it was wrong of me to link the word 'warrior' with some the more intimidating aspects of the human psyche (male or female). Especially so at this time of Remembrance with our modern day warriors falling on a daily basis in Afghanistan. Food for thought.
PS: (The book I am currently reading about Boudica is by Vanessa Collinbridge)