Fair enough, that's your opinion. You're not the one who's spent the last however many pointless days of this thread defending himself though are you?
I'd love to agree that the viewpoints here are virtually indistinguishable, but to be honest I don't think they are. I think we have a shared interest, and that we both want to do (what we perceive to be) the right thing. But our view of what that is, is not the same.