Ditto. Plus your willingness to 'wash dirty laundry' in public. Which you've illustrated again here.
I wish you no ill and have no desire to be nasty to you or about you, but I have no interest in re-establishing a friendship with you.
And I still think you must've had a weird view of HA and more esp of me & J to say "their HA boss"!!! I find it hard to believe either of us ever really come across as easily bidden!!!