"I have real problems trying to Put Myself in Their Shoes."
No one can put themselves "in their shoes"! It's impossible, just like only I can put myself "in my shoes". You can have a good go and get quite close, but you'll never manage it.
Some people just manage to "try" better than others, and in some cases to delude themselves that have actually succeeded.
This is not a comment on anyone on this forum in particular or generally, but a direct response to the one sentence above.
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